Get ready to break all the rules you swore you never would when Venus in Virgo squares Uranus in Gemini on July 13th. Usually staid and obedient, it's become abundantly clear that if you continue as is then you'll have only yourself to blame for letting a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity pass you by. No one ever thinks of themselves as a selfish person who puts their happiness above the happiness of others until the day when you actually do. Will loved ones and friends be upset and hurt? Undoubtedly. But the difference is they'll get over it whereas you won't if you don't follow your heart.