Dramatic changes in your partnerโs life are going to have a powerful impact on you. In the past, you would have sucked it up and quietly put their needs ahead of yours, but you have a lot of things going for you right now and youโre not that into sacrifice. Sit down and talk about whatโs at stake for both of you. Youโll find that your partner is not insensitive and wants to find a way to make things work so that nobody loses out. Work with developments as they unfold and you will certainly wind up with the best of all possible worlds.