You like being the provider, but what you don’t like is feeling taken for granted. Yet what are you mad at really? You can’t set things up so that people are dependent on you and then in a moment of frustration tell them to pitch in. How are they supposed to know what you want them to do when you’ve been doing all the work? If you’re serious about asking them to help then delegate duties and responsibilities and be ready to relinquish some authority. It won’t be easy, but then a Solar Eclipse in Aries is all about facing a challenge rather than ducking it.