You don’t like being forced to choose between one party or another. Not only does it go against your Venus nature – which is always looking for a way to have her cake and eat it too – but it’s also impractical. Nobody owns you nor did you mislead anyone into believing your loyalty was exclusive. What it gets down to is hurt feelings resulting from a bruised ego. Take the time to smooth over ruffled feathers while maintaining your autonomy. You’ll get what you want because both sides want you, but at the same time, you don’t want to look like you’re taking advantage of it.