Pluto out of retrograde on October 15th will do a lot to improve your mood. You won't be so inclined to revisit past mistakes with the prosecutorial zeal of a Spanish Inquisitor or to sprinkle salt in your wounds after licking them clean. Pluto in Aquarius shows you lightening up with the self-criticism and maybe even exploring constructive ways to manage your frustration. One of these might be self-acceptance; another is a more enlightened relationship to failure. People screw up all the time. It's how we learn from our missteps. You can't get things right without a more forgiving attitude towards having gotten them wrong.