Are you imagining things, or is your partner checking up on you? What else can explain the barrage of texts asking where you are and what you're doing? And here you thought that you were the jealous one in the relationship. It's nice being the focus of so much attention – not only from your partner but also the person your partner's obsessed with. Now you could say that there's nothing to worry about, but where's the fun in that? Enjoy being fought over. Not only is it a welcome role reversal, but it also teaches people what it's like to be in your shoes.