Retreating from a confrontation by acting like you don't know what a loved one is talking about isn't the way to go. You're only putting off for tomorrow a conversation you should be having today. It's hard playing the Saturn role in a Mars/Saturn square on August 16th because you can't help feeling defensive, but it's up to you to lower the deflector shields and open all hailing frequencies. What you get in return is an honest exchange where the other side shares grievances while taking responsibility for their part in the matter. Do the same, and you'll mend a bridge that's been in disrepair too long.