Pluto turning retrograde on May 6th shows a change in a standoff. It's not so much that the other side blinks; it's more like they're not as resistant as they have been, and this presents an opening. Now there's one of two ways to proceed. You can exploit your opportunity and seize the upper hand, or you can calmly approach the other party to see if they're open to negotiating. Given that Pluto is in an air sign, it's always better to negotiate. Trust in the moment, and you'll discover that expressing your willingness to work out differences results in them wanting to do the same.