It looks like your heart is in the right place, but your head isn't. This disconnect often happens when Mercury squares Saturn in the sky (November 10th). All it takes is a superior raising an eyebrow or a partner looking askance, and you will feel the courage drain out of your convictions. There are times when it pays to have one foot in and one foot out, but this isn't one of them because the person who will suffer most from your uncertainty is you. Decide whether you're really behind that gesture you want to make because if you're not, then it's better to backtrack now.