Pluto out of retrograde on October 11th is like waking up in the morning and reaching out across the bed only to realize that the person isn't there. It's a dull ache you thought had gone away but hasn't. Retrogrades (especially with the slower-moving planets) often have to do with long-term decisions that we put off because we can; however, this time it looks like you're ready to move forward. You need to put past wounds behind and come out of that corner you've been curled up in. It won't be easy finding someone new, but clinging to the past has gotten old.