Eclipses in the Spring and Autumn bring to a head tensions between home and career. It feels as if you can’t respond to one without betraying the other yet there’s more going on than establishing a better work-life balance. It’s almost as if the more you focus on one party, the more jealous the other one becomes. This is a good time to remember that both sides need you which means you’re in a position to dictate how things will play out. Change your mindset from being pulled in opposite directions to being someone neither side can live without, and you get to call the shots.