You're not going to win that fight you think you're going to win… not when your opponent has the home team advantage. Like a castle raising the drawbridge and draining the moat, the people inside can wait you out. Your Ruling Planet Mars may be in Aries, but Jupiter is exalted in Cancer, which makes it superior in the celestial face-off taking place on May 4th. Switch gears from a combative approach to a more cooperative one. Not only will it de-escalate tensions, but it also introduces an off-ramp. This allows you to save face and even leave the confrontation with something in hand.