No one's trying to take you by surprise by asking if you’re OK. It's a question – nothing more; nothing less. Emotionally speaking, Aries people are like hardboiled private eyes who sleep with a gun under the pillow, ready to fire at the first sign of intrusion yet for a zodiac sign who professes to be bold and fearless, you're carrying a lot of angst these days. Concern is not a form of manipulation; it shows people care. Perhaps if you let someone be there for you in the way you're always there for them you might find it's not so bad sharing your troubles; it's even healthy.