You don't like it when people get whiny. Complaining about their hurt feelings or life being unfair is more likely to harden your heart than open it. Nevertheless, you might want to ask yourself why you're so quick to write them off as being “oversensitive” when Mercury opposes Jupiter on January 14th. Is it possible that they're expressing things you've felt forbidden to express yourself? Powering through problems isn't always the answer, and taking a moment to be there for someone in their hurt may be both revealing and comforting. Perhaps it's time to give them the hug and support that a parent never gave you.