You’re more accustomed to thinking along the lines of what you owe others. On March 14th things will be flipped so that the question becomes what do others owe you? And this is more than just finances. What do they owe you emotionally or in terms of the time and energy that you’ve invested in them? Self-sacrifice is great in the moment but it doesn't make for the best lifestyle choice. In other words you can no longer afford to give in the capacity that you’ve been giving. You need something in return; a re-balancing of the give-and-take – plus a little reciprocity couldn’t hurt.