Many things will be said that you wished had remained unsaid when Mercury squares Mars on May 18th. Mars has no problem fighting dirty and Mercury will weaponize the closest word handy; yet it's not the fight that's at fault, but the means being used to win it. Nobody ever wants to acknowledge using private confidences and tender moments to inflict pain – but the sooner you do, the sooner the other party will follow suit. Altercations like these are never pleasant, but if they can serve as a deterrent against ever doing anything like this again, then that means some good has come of it.