Why does it feel like you're not getting something that's perfectly accessible to everyone else? For some reason, they're able to breeze through obstacles and reach their goals with all the speed and ease of a CLEAR membership pass while you're left languishing in a line that isn't moving. The reason you're at a standstill isn't because they know something you don't; it's because you're trying to make something work that doesn't anymore. What's needed now is a change in your approach, and if that doesn't work, then a change in your destination. Embrace the spirit of exploration and discovery and you'll get things moving again.