We all tend to manufacture excuses for why someone we're attracted to doesn't return our affections. Maybe this person has trouble expressing themselves or suffers from trust issues. Indeed given the emotional depth and imagination of Venus in Pisces, you could wind up telling yourself all kinds of stories. Yet the question is – do you really want to exhaust yourself trying to win over someone who doesn't want to be won over? The bald-faced truth of the Venus/Saturn conjunction on April 7th may be hard to take, but accepting it saves you from trying to force a fit with someone who was never a good match.