People can get aggressively passive-aggressive when Venus and Jupiter form a square to each other in the zodiac signs of Cancer and Libra. That's because Cancers and Libras always want the other one to go first. Rather than be upfront, they prefer to drop hints, imply “yes” without actually making a commitment, and circle around the point in hopes of exhausting the other party's patience and resistance. This could go on endlessly if you don't bite the bullet and ask for what you want. Chances are you'll get the answer you were hoping for. The other party was simply waiting for you to take the lead.