It's OK to be selfish. It's allowed – if not encouraged – while Ruling Planet Venus is traveling through the zodiac sign of the Lion (August 25th through September 19th). And since you're putting yourself first, you might as well increase the volume of your roar and the boldness of your actions. This will do a lot to align you with the cosmic energy coursing through your horoscope. There will be plenty of time to purr and make nice later, but for now you need to dominate as much ground as you can because you won't have a chance like this again for a very long time.