Mars, planet of strife, moves into that part of your solar chart that pertains to house and home on September 22d. Life with family members has been strained and this could transform what's left of your peaceful sanctuary into an occupied territory. Since you know you can't win you might as well let loved ones know where you stand. Tell them you don't appreciate their bitchy asides, the free-floating anger, and the way you're made to feel like you have to walk around on eggshells. Yes, they'll be upset, but at least you'll get tensions out in the open where they can be addressed.