Putting yourself first has its price and that’s something you need to get used to. Cancer isn’t built this way. You constantly worry about hurting people’s feelings, if your criticism damaged a loved one for life, or if “selfish” actions have sown the seeds for future retaliation. The Solar Eclipse in Aries on March 29th  shows that you’re playing in the big leagues now and have to “man up”; “man up” doesn’t mean being heartless (that will never happen; you’re too sensitive) but it does mean putting others second and that doesn’t have to be such a bad thing as long as you’re nice about it.