You're stubborn, but you're nice about it. You'll let people disagree, challenge you, and vehemently express their displeasure knowing full well that once they feel like they've been heard, they'll come around to your way of thinking. It's something you've been doing for years without calling attention to it. The difference, however, in the type of exchanges you're having nowadays is that Pluto is in your sign. This gives off a certain air of inevitability that others can find disconcerting so be sure when you wind up getting your way in the end to make people feel like they still had a choice all along.