In a perfect world you’d walk out on those relationships and obligations that no longer serve you but Jupiter in Gemini sextiles the Solar Eclipse on March 29th which means that creating some distance may be the best way of addressing the impulses that divide you now. You might set up some alone time with an extracurricular activity, scale back hours at work, or even move out temporarily. It’s amazing what a little breathing room can do. Not only will you reestablish a balance between heart and mind, but you’ll be able to examine what you truly want free of demands, pressure, and guilt.